BigPersonal.com is one of the best BBW dating site. It has been online for more than 4 years. The site features thousands of large and luscious women waiting for their prince charming to make their dreams come true. If you're a single, sexy BBW, or a single, adventurous man from the UK, this site is definitely for you.
Thursday, August 4, 2011
BBW? Find the best online dating sites for you
In the United States, there are a number of BBW Dating Sites that cater to Big Beautiful Women and the men who adore them (BBW Admirers). These sites also cater to Plus Size singles worldwide, but their memberships are predominately from the United States and Canada.
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
I am afraid he may leave me due to my size
I am 29 years of age and so unhappy. I don’t know where or how to start. I need your help, your advice and your counsel. I write with tears in my eyes because I am about to lose another wonderful man in my life and the problem is that I feel I deserve what he is doing to me.
I have always been a very beautiful lady and knew it but along the line, about 10 years back, I started gaining weight so much so that no matter what I did, I couldn’t lose it. I tried everything and when I say everything, I mean everything from dieting, starving, exercising, purging, slim teas and other solutions. Over the years, it continued and started to affect my self esteem, I noticed I was no longer getting the kind of attention I used to get and this made me desperate because I knew I wasn’t the same as before, this led me into several wrong, abusive and bad relationships just so I could feel accepted. I got pregnant and had abortions four different times for four different men, I smoked and drank so much just to cover up my pains but all these never helped. These habits only drove me deeper into the abyss of my self pity.
Along the line, after several rejections and pain, I decided to get my life back on track not minding what anyone thought about me, I graduated, got a job and continued my life peacefully, or so I thought. Sometime in 2009, I started noticing a lump on my throat and I was always tired, depressed and the weight gain was worse than it had ever been in the past, I grew out of my clothes every two weeks, I couldn’t manage walking even the shortest distance and my period practically ceased.
I went to the hospital and after series of test, it was discovered I had Hypothyriodism, a hormone deficiency condition, I also found out that the condition was linked to my weight gain, moodiness, depression and tiredness over the years, I was glad to find out what the problem was and started on hormone supplements which the doctors said I would be on for the rest of my life.
Now, I have met a great guy who just adores me but sometimes I get so depressed he doesn’t understand why, I am tired most of the time and he wonders why I am big even as I try so hard to eat right. I don’t know how to tell him about my condition, I feel it would drive him away or he might just stay on out of pity for me. I have tried to explain a bit of it to him but I am scared he might never understand what this is all about. I am worried about his family and people laughing at him for dating a fat lady and most of all am worried about what the doctors said about my condition, they said hypothyriodic woman have a hard time getting pregnant and when they do, they always suffer a miscarriage. Now I want a family of my own, I might not be able to have one, how do I tell him all these, and prove to him that I could get pregnant because of my previous pregnancies? Wouldn’t that amount to opening a can of worms? I am so confused but I love him, I really do. After all those years of being lost and abused, I am now a changed person with a new man and Hypothyrodism wants to destroy my happiness, is this Karma? What do I do? Please tell me before I call off the relationship for fear of the unknown.
I have always been a very beautiful lady and knew it but along the line, about 10 years back, I started gaining weight so much so that no matter what I did, I couldn’t lose it. I tried everything and when I say everything, I mean everything from dieting, starving, exercising, purging, slim teas and other solutions. Over the years, it continued and started to affect my self esteem, I noticed I was no longer getting the kind of attention I used to get and this made me desperate because I knew I wasn’t the same as before, this led me into several wrong, abusive and bad relationships just so I could feel accepted. I got pregnant and had abortions four different times for four different men, I smoked and drank so much just to cover up my pains but all these never helped. These habits only drove me deeper into the abyss of my self pity.
Along the line, after several rejections and pain, I decided to get my life back on track not minding what anyone thought about me, I graduated, got a job and continued my life peacefully, or so I thought. Sometime in 2009, I started noticing a lump on my throat and I was always tired, depressed and the weight gain was worse than it had ever been in the past, I grew out of my clothes every two weeks, I couldn’t manage walking even the shortest distance and my period practically ceased.
I went to the hospital and after series of test, it was discovered I had Hypothyriodism, a hormone deficiency condition, I also found out that the condition was linked to my weight gain, moodiness, depression and tiredness over the years, I was glad to find out what the problem was and started on hormone supplements which the doctors said I would be on for the rest of my life.
Now, I have met a great guy who just adores me but sometimes I get so depressed he doesn’t understand why, I am tired most of the time and he wonders why I am big even as I try so hard to eat right. I don’t know how to tell him about my condition, I feel it would drive him away or he might just stay on out of pity for me. I have tried to explain a bit of it to him but I am scared he might never understand what this is all about. I am worried about his family and people laughing at him for dating a fat lady and most of all am worried about what the doctors said about my condition, they said hypothyriodic woman have a hard time getting pregnant and when they do, they always suffer a miscarriage. Now I want a family of my own, I might not be able to have one, how do I tell him all these, and prove to him that I could get pregnant because of my previous pregnancies? Wouldn’t that amount to opening a can of worms? I am so confused but I love him, I really do. After all those years of being lost and abused, I am now a changed person with a new man and Hypothyrodism wants to destroy my happiness, is this Karma? What do I do? Please tell me before I call off the relationship for fear of the unknown.
Plus-Size Fashion Reality Show "Big Sexy" Will Debut on TLC Aug. 10
With the average American women's dress size hovering around a 14, have you ever wondered why there aren't more plus-size (or, heck, even normal average women-sized) models and plus-size fashion designers or size-friendly brands on television? TLC is about to change that with the premiere of Big Sexy, a special three-part series on breaking into the plus-size fashion industry.
The show will follow five New York women—Leslie, Tiffany, Audrey, Nikki, andHeather—who are on a mission to mainstream plus-size fashion super-hotness. The release says:
From designing clothing to booking modeling gigs, BIG SEXY will follow the ladies as they take over Manhattan to make plus-size sexiness more mainstream. Weight bias is notoriously rampant in their chosen industries, and it is their mission to prove that a bigger girl—the girl that most Americans can relate to—can break the mold and change the fashion and cultural norms that have restricted and rejected them for so long.Throughout the series, the women will attend fashion industry events and the viewer will get a behind-the-scenes peek at each of the women's personal lives—including dating and family life.
Big Sexy will premiere on TLC Tuesday, August 30th at 10 p.m. ET/PT.
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